So this is a second part, I let the tension last a bit since I didn’t find the need to reply quickly and she decided to text again with something very forward. Any thoughts on how I should handle this. First thought is, “well lucky for you I’m a great cuddler.” But that seems like I’m selling to her I want her to sell to me so let me know. Second thought is I invite her to drinks but she also doesn’t want to go out so I kinda want to find a way to make her invite me to her place. LMK

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I dont agree with the beginning. Try to Look at what im saying differently than how you currently look at game. Unlearn basically lol. Dont look at what Im saying as a blueprint meaning "Text this exact way with every girl". You want to text in the same spirit as me not the same way. If that makes sense. And Like I said in this response, this interaction could have been much shorter I just know for most guys they probably quit hard cases or text them for a while so I wanted to give the most democratic example. But yeah this could go much faster and DONT FOOL YOURSELF. If you text a girl right she's not gonna get sick of it. She'll go on 100 texting dates with you and 100 irl ones if you can do it right. I never worry abt texting a girl too much and her flaking as a result. I do what I want g. Works fine for me but to each is own. Like I said will be giving more examples soon (WITH PICS OF THE GIRLS BODIES ATLEAST SO YOU CAN SEE THAT THEY ARENT WHALES LOL) and would love to hop on alex's pod one day. Show off my hoes on there lmao. im only slightly joking.

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You misunderstand me: I stated that I actually have the same flow/frame as you when I interact with girls on the apps. The difference with mine is that I'm moving forward as fast as possible because there have been many girls in the past (very attractive ones) that, when I texted in your format, ending up flaking or giving another excuse. I've had much more success by getting them off the apps ASAP and moving to a number and then meetup shortly after if the logistics allow for it. But, as I stated, I agree with your texting format because it can work with CERTAIN attractive girls, but not all and I think that's what you conceded. I respect your concession because any guy who claims to have a 100% foolproof way of texting is full of shit. Also, I'd be interested to see you on the podcast. I hop on when I am available so it'd be dope to see you on some time.

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Look im seducing you. Look how much you're investing rn, im too good. JK JK Lol all in good fun. Send me a old text string of your that didnt work tho, Id think youd be surprised at what I think about it. Try me when you have the time. I'm in everyone's corner if they allow me. I Like to make friends.

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