So this is a second part, I let the tension last a bit since I didn’t find the need to reply quickly and she decided to text again with something very forward. Any thoughts on how I should handle this. First thought is, “well lucky for you I’m a great cuddler.” But that seems like I’m selling to her I want her to sell to me so let me know. Second thought is I invite her to drinks but she also doesn’t want to go out so I kinda want to find a way to make her invite me to her place. LMK
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I don't know where our discrepancy here is, then. My texting has somewhat of the same flow and frame as yours does, minus the amount of texting. I save a majority of this kind of talk for when we meetup because I've had interactions like this where, after getting her to open up, she isn't open to the idea of meeting because it's almost like you've already gone on a date to them (that's their backwards reasoning and rationalization for declining). Sure, this can work in SOME cases, but a vast majority will likely not end in a meetup due to what I stated previously. The dating app should be used for some banter and back and forth investment and securing a meetup as soon as possible so you can have this interaction personally. You've got to feel out her walls and break them down in person (no inuendo here ;).) by using your tonality, body language, conversational skills etc... So I still agree with this sort of frame in general. Minus a couple nuances
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And I think guys would be much happier if they knew that you CAN text broads all day and still bag later. Because I have probably 5 girls rn that I just text when I want with 100% confidence I can bag them when Im ready. Haven't met them yet but I text them properly. Allows me to in the long run have WAY more girls.
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I dont agree with the beginning. Try to Look at what im saying differently than how you currently look at game. Unlearn basically lol. Dont look at what Im saying as a blueprint meaning "Text this exact way with every girl". You want to text in the same spirit as me not the same way. If that makes sense. And Like I said in this response, this interaction could have been much shorter I just know for most guys they probably quit hard cases or text them for a while so I wanted to give the most democratic example. But yeah this could go much faster and DONT FOOL YOURSELF. If you text a girl right she's not gonna get sick of it. She'll go on 100 texting dates with you and 100 irl ones if you can do it right. I never worry abt texting a girl too much and her flaking as a result. I do what I want g. Works fine for me but to each is own. Like I said will be giving more examples soon (WITH PICS OF THE GIRLS BODIES ATLEAST SO YOU CAN SEE THAT THEY ARENT WHALES LOL) and would love to hop on alex's pod one day. Show off my hoes on there lmao. im only slightly joking.
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You misunderstand me: I stated that I actually have the same flow/frame as you when I interact with girls on the apps. The difference with mine is that I'm moving forward as fast as possible because there have been many girls in the past (very attractive ones) that, when I texted in your format, ending up flaking or giving another excuse. I've had much more success by getting them off the apps ASAP and moving to a number and then meetup shortly after if the logistics allow for it. But, as I stated, I agree with your texting format because it can work with CERTAIN attractive girls, but not all and I think that's what you conceded. I respect your concession because any guy who claims to have a 100% foolproof way of texting is full of shit. Also, I'd be interested to see you on the podcast. I hop on when I am available so it'd be dope to see you on some time.