So this is a second part, I let the tension last a bit since I didn’t find the need to reply quickly and she decided to text again with something very forward. Any thoughts on how I should handle this. First thought is, “well lucky for you I’m a great cuddler.” But that seems like I’m selling to her I want her to sell to me so let me know. Second thought is I invite her to drinks but she also doesn’t want to go out so I kinda want to find a way to make her invite me to her place. LMK
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Ill do you one better. Ill give a realistic example (based on convos I've had with very attractive women) assuming the girl is very dry (which many super hot girls can be)
Me: “I don’t count serial killer docs or medical dramas as good movies so be warned”
Her: "Really?"
Me: "No im a liar"
Her: "Wow I bet"
Me: "Thought you were basic and boring but your texting proves otherwise"
Me again: "Not lying this time" (Hidden sarcasm. Its sarcastic but she's likely not to take it that way) (also this is two msgs back to back if you were confused)
Her: Cant tell if your serious but thanks ig
Me: Why are you so scared to open up
Her: I dont know you bro lol
Me: Welcome to tinder, is this your first day lol. I get it tho, girls are wierd on here tbh
Her: How are girls weird
Me: No one is genuine anymore. Very scared creatures you females. I feel for ya tho
Her: I think im genuine but you have to be a certain type of guy to earn that from me. I barely know you so yeah (starting to get her. Note: Most of my convos never have to go on this long b4 getting real good. Example here is a hard case. most guys would say is a lost cause and give up on)
Me: Well tell me this b4 I dip. What is it that you're doing rn that makes me so interested in you. If i were to guess Id say its because there is a cool genuine person in there trying to peak out. I can almost see her.
Her: You're doing better than most guys lol ill give you that sir. Idk lmao im boring frfr but i appreciate the kind word (Starting to get her now. She's right in my clutches at this point. Ill give a few more but its a done deal at this point)
Me: You like to write or something? Like what do you like to do I mean? Writing seems like a boring person activity so thats my first guess
Her: I like to skate, dance, work a lot. A bit of everything ig but im trying to really focus on my money rn tbh
Me: You a stock market girl or something? You do a lot it seams so id guess you were in the side hustle culture
FROM THIS POINT ITS OVER. SHES HOOKED AND IF I WERE YOU GUYS ID JUST TEXT HOW YOU NORMALLY TEXT AND ESCALATE AT THIS POINT> I WANTED TO DEMONSTRATE HOW TO "EASILY" OVERCOME A HARD CASE. STUDY THIS LOL... if you want
Heres what you could say next to sexualize for you guys that hate talking to broaids (plus im gonna post a ton of different screens soon. You COULD HAVE EASILY. Been very sexual with this girl here and still had this go in a similar direction)
Her: I like to skate, dance, work a lot. A bit of everything ig but im trying to really focus on my money rn tbh
Me: A hard working girl is kinda hot (insert smug face emoji) but jokes aside lets take over the world, build an empire, and I want plenty cake pictures as reward for this. Ass and cake pictures. (Its a more convoluted sexual escalation but I use to to demonstrate a key point. YOU can introduce and talk abt whatever you want at any time granted you do it the right way. This girl would have responded very negatively to sex sex sex at this point after you just broke her shield. So here you combine genuine interest and investment with a hint of sex to get her excited and happy!!)
THANKS FOR READING THIS I HOPE IT HELPS YOU YAY
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I don't know where our discrepancy here is, then. My texting has somewhat of the same flow and frame as yours does, minus the amount of texting. I save a majority of this kind of talk for when we meetup because I've had interactions like this where, after getting her to open up, she isn't open to the idea of meeting because it's almost like you've already gone on a date to them (that's their backwards reasoning and rationalization for declining). Sure, this can work in SOME cases, but a vast majority will likely not end in a meetup due to what I stated previously. The dating app should be used for some banter and back and forth investment and securing a meetup as soon as possible so you can have this interaction personally. You've got to feel out her walls and break them down in person (no inuendo here ;).) by using your tonality, body language, conversational skills etc... So I still agree with this sort of frame in general. Minus a couple nuances
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And I think guys would be much happier if they knew that you CAN text broads all day and still bag later. Because I have probably 5 girls rn that I just text when I want with 100% confidence I can bag them when Im ready. Haven't met them yet but I text them properly. Allows me to in the long run have WAY more girls.
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I dont agree with the beginning. Try to Look at what im saying differently than how you currently look at game. Unlearn basically lol. Dont look at what Im saying as a blueprint meaning "Text this exact way with every girl". You want to text in the same spirit as me not the same way. If that makes sense. And Like I said in this response, this interaction could have been much shorter I just know for most guys they probably quit hard cases or text them for a while so I wanted to give the most democratic example. But yeah this could go much faster and DONT FOOL YOURSELF. If you text a girl right she's not gonna get sick of it. She'll go on 100 texting dates with you and 100 irl ones if you can do it right. I never worry abt texting a girl too much and her flaking as a result. I do what I want g. Works fine for me but to each is own. Like I said will be giving more examples soon (WITH PICS OF THE GIRLS BODIES ATLEAST SO YOU CAN SEE THAT THEY ARENT WHALES LOL) and would love to hop on alex's pod one day. Show off my hoes on there lmao. im only slightly joking.