So pretty self explanatory but she seems worried that I'm a fake, don't know if its just a shit test or not but other than giving my IG idk how I would verify that I'm real.. Not sure what to do here or if what I wrote works or not, but got me wondering what you should generally do in this situation where she is scared you might be a fake.

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Ofc man happy to help. Here I might do something slightly modified like: “Hm I’m busy too, I’m sure we could both find a couple hours if we really wanted too tho”

or alternatively you could go with something less direct like:

“Sounds like you need some stress relief, what are weekends like for you?” (since most people tend to be free on weekends)

Also, I would highly highly recommend moving it to the phone number, it’s better overall for flakeyness and it differentiates you. Realistically she’s probably talking to a good number of guys on insta but not as much via text. Also she may not check insta as often etc. etc.

Goodluck bro

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Hmm I like that. Perhaps I could go with a bit of both? "Sounds like you need some stress relief, and i'm busy too, tho i'm sure we could both find a couple hours if we really wanted to" otherwise I'll go with what you said but kinda liking both of your options haha

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Sure bro, go with what you feel matches your style best. Make sure not to make it too wordy or long tho

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