So pretty self explanatory but she seems worried that I'm a fake, don't know if its just a shit test or not but other than giving my IG idk how I would verify that I'm real.. Not sure what to do here or if what I wrote works or not, but got me wondering what you should generally do in this situation where she is scared you might be a fake.
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Yo thanks for the advice, it worked and talking on IG.
On the other hand not exactly sure what I do now, talked a bit and went for another soft close with "Do you like wine" and she said "yes i do", I responded "we should split a bottle of wine sometime, what's your schedule like".
Again there is probably a much smoother way of doing it but I'm not sure how exactly I should go about it. Anyway she responded with " Superrr busy i have many projectss now". What would you say I should do here? I was thinking of sending "Look I get it, I'm busy too, but i'm sure we could find a few hours if we really wanted to" is that good or maybe I'm pushing it too much when she might not be super invested yet? Really appreciate your advice thanks man :)
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Ofc man happy to help. Here I might do something slightly modified like: “Hm I’m busy too, I’m sure we could both find a couple hours if we really wanted too tho”
or alternatively you could go with something less direct like:
“Sounds like you need some stress relief, what are weekends like for you?” (since most people tend to be free on weekends)
Also, I would highly highly recommend moving it to the phone number, it’s better overall for flakeyness and it differentiates you. Realistically she’s probably talking to a good number of guys on insta but not as much via text. Also she may not check insta as often etc. etc.
Goodluck bro
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Hmm I like that. Perhaps I could go with a bit of both? "Sounds like you need some stress relief, and i'm busy too, tho i'm sure we could both find a couple hours if we really wanted to" otherwise I'll go with what you said but kinda liking both of your options haha