What do you do when she thinks you might be a fake?
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So pretty self explanatory but she seems worried that I'm a fake, don't know if its just a shit test or not but other than giving my IG idk how I would verify that I'm real..
Not sure what to do here or if what I wrote works or not, but got me wondering what you should generally do in this situation where she is scared you might be a fake.
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"...Or we can facetime for a minute or two if you're that skeptical"
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She's being extra careful/cautious here - normally doesn't happen but you can easily debunk this. First as to why. 9times/10, the girl is like this because she has had a shitty past experience, so you need to respond with solid reassurance, don't get butthurt etc. I liked the bought followers line but you ruined it a bit with the follow-up "are we judging.." as it makes you sound butthurt.
The easiest thing I do is say something like "Shoot me your number and we can hop on a quick ft" but for here and now, I would adjust and go with something like "Why don't we hop on a quick ft and I'll prove I'm not a 300lbs _____ (insert any race/ethinicity not you) dude"
and if she doesn't respond to that you can go with a simple takeaway "If you're too nervous, I'd understand.." - (only 2-3 days after you've sent the prev. message)
Hope this helps bro. Goodluck.
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Alright makes sense, will make sure to try this and see how it goes. Thanks!
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Yup always. Lmk how it goes.
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