Hey guys, Had a solid convo with this girl — good energy, long replies, seemed into meeting up. But now she’s insisting I come to her city (about 40 mins away). I teased her a bit about needing a visa to visit mine, but she doubled down with “So doesn’t Amsterdam 😉” and hasn’t softened since. I’m not opposed to going there eventually, but I want to make sure I’m only investing in women who show some flexibility and effort early on. Feels like if I cave now, I’m chasing. What’s the best way to reframe this and get her to agree to drinks in my city without killing the vibe or looking rigid?