So basically my Tinder profile is still a work in progress but I am getting around 4 to 5 matches a week with a response rate of at least 85%. But I've been blowing it date after date for almost a month now. The thing is I do not lie about my intentions I am looking for something casual, a one night stand, a friend with benefits, even a semi-regular booty call, basically anything that's not a committed serious relationship. But it seems this approach is not working so well, part of me wishes to blame it on the girls I meet and say they just don't want the same but I can't help but think I have done something wrong and there were times where sex was a possibility but I failed, pushed too much or pushed too little. Long story short, I have a date on Tuesday. New girl, fresh out of a relationship who stated that she's looking for something casual. I'm in Paris now and we have a 9:00 PM curfew plus all bars and restaurants are closed, so I'll be meeting her at a public park that is right between where we both live, not very far from her place which is good. I need some tips on what to do and what not to do to make sure I either have sex on Tuesday or arrange for some later in the week. ( Is it a good idea to bring a bottle of wine with me without telling her is also something I wanna know)
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Nice man. Ya most guys don't have the balls to invite a girl straight over and girls know this. They respect the dude that does. What was her response when you mentioned sex? I'd imagine that would be a turn off since girls want there to be some chemistry before setting expectations
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Oh no I didn't mention it like a job application. I've been playfuly hinting at it for two days now and she was actually playing along with me.
Then when I said the park would be too far if we expect to do it she agreed that's when I knew that if I turned it into a serious conversation she would say yes. And surely enough she did, in fact she agreed to the sex before I even brought up the wine so that came as like a seal the deal kinda thing. We'll see on tuesday if she goes through with it all (I'm optimistic she'll be in my bed)