No matter how much I improve my text game, they seem to flake at the suggestion of a meetup. Screenshot of example below. Going to follow-up with a '...?' tomorrow but lmk where I may have messed up

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J

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Thanks man. To be honest though, I thought I was soft closing... How would you have soft closed it exactly?

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Looking back you did a pretty good job in terms of soft closing tbh, I might have gone with something a little more vague like "Glad you're into that as well, you seem very spontaneous" and she would respond with "Yeah etc. etc." then I might go with a "We should go on an adventure together sometime" or something like that although it's personal preference really. You did a good job. Let me know how it goes brother

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J

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Makes sense. Btw, how would you literally reply back with "Dont worry, it wasn't a trick question"? Would you add a ":)" or "..." to make it more obvious it's said lightheartedly?

E.g.
Dont worry, it wasn't a trick question :)
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Dont worry, it wasn't a trick question...

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