So then I arranged a date on Thursday. The day of the date she cancels and said she had to go back home to London (she really is in London though I’ve seen it in her story). How can I try secure the date? She didn’t reply to my last message. Should I double text? Please help
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bro, you gotta learn how to handle objections/shit test, if she said she is with her friends, I'd say something like so am I, we'll come back afterwards. Also why didn't you setup date then after at the nightclub? always better to setup/handle stuff in person.
As far as text thread idk full context but a simple
"Dont think too hard now"
might work
but yeah man, hanging with other girls is good way to solve neediness, I'd be working other leads, let us know how it goes, best wishes
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I’ve been getting with a new girl about once every 2 weeks but it’s just sex and I’m trying to get into a relationship but most girls aren’t into that in my experience. And also I really liked this girl which is why I might have come across needy. Do you think I should message her again her just leave it?
Thanks for you help
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yeah man wont hurt to hit her up again, I usually give up after 4 no response text. But girls dont really like needy guys so just be cognizant of it man going forward
plenty girls want relationships especially as they get older out of college. Might have to do a little screening but its more common than not in my experience