So then I arranged a date on Thursday. The day of the date she cancels and said she had to go back home to London (she really is in London though I’ve seen it in her story). How can I try secure the date? She didn’t reply to my last message. Should I double text? Please help
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J
39 Posts (+1), 57 Cmts (+6)
39 Posts (+1), 57 Cmts (+6)
So the full context is we are both university students. I met her in a bar and we went back to her house. We then had sex about 4 times.
The next morning I had work at 9. When my alarm went off she said I should call in sick so I can spend the whole day with her. I ended up just talking to her and kissing her and only ended up going to work at about 11. She said can I keep your shirt so that I can make sure you come back because I want to see you again and I have heard you are a f*ck boi. I told her I’ll keep my shirt but I’ll message you. I then said would you want to go for drinks later this week and she said yes. I then told her I’ll message her and confirm the details. That same day she messaged me asking about my job. This all happened on Saturday night.
Then yesterday, which was Monday next week (not the Monday straight after but the Monday the week after that) I see her again in a nightclub. We kiss and then I ask her if she wants to go home with me. She’s says she can’t because she is with her friends (which means nothing because she was with her friends last time aswell). I feel as though I am coming off a bit needy but I think it was because I was too into her because she is like a 10.
And she also didn’t end up opening my last message.
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bro, you gotta learn how to handle objections/shit test, if she said she is with her friends, I'd say something like so am I, we'll come back afterwards. Also why didn't you setup date then after at the nightclub? always better to setup/handle stuff in person.
As far as text thread idk full context but a simple
"Dont think too hard now"
might work
but yeah man, hanging with other girls is good way to solve neediness, I'd be working other leads, let us know how it goes, best wishes
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I’ve been getting with a new girl about once every 2 weeks but it’s just sex and I’m trying to get into a relationship but most girls aren’t into that in my experience. And also I really liked this girl which is why I might have come across needy. Do you think I should message her again her just leave it?
Thanks for you help