I recently watched a the denmo podcast and I really dislike the idea of gradually progressing by being friends first and then going forward. I personally like the idea of seeing a girl I like and approaching her no matter where it is. Sure gradual progression can work if I’m in a group activity or club like salsa, improv, intramural sports or whatever but I’m a strong believer in cold approach. And one thing that kinda gets on my nerves is why does it have to be at a bar specifically or a girl who I see everyday in the elevator? Wtf?! Alex, I want to ask you: is it possible to get a girlfriend by literally seeing a cute girl on the STREET or anywhere random, approaching her with good game (she doesn’t even have to give me “choosing signals”) we vibe, I get her number, we go on a date, we hook up and then we start dating and she’s my girlfriend now? I’m sick of all the YouTube content, I just want to get out there and get to work by approaching. I just want to know if this is possible, that’s it. Just to add: in terms of smv: I’m 6ft tall, good looking (people have told me), in shape, financial situation is moving in a positive direction because I’ll be moving out pretty soon within the next 6-8 months, hopefully, my age is 23 and I dress well. So no need to mention smv over and over again.
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Sounds like you have overindulged in the self-improvement videos. My advice is to choose 3 channels MAX to follow that match with your goals
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Lol I use to overindulge in it back during Covid not anymore tbh, I matured really fast and realized very quickly how all of it is not helping me. I think joining the frat in my university really taught me a lot and also developed my character in ways but yes, I have a lot to work on.
You’re absolutely correct: 3 YouTubers max should be the aim. It should come from someone who is genuinely happy with their life, constantly improving in the right areas and someone who is not a hypocrite.