I recently watched a the denmo podcast and I really dislike the idea of gradually progressing by being friends first and then going forward. I personally like the idea of seeing a girl I like and approaching her no matter where it is. Sure gradual progression can work if I’m in a group activity or club like salsa, improv, intramural sports or whatever but I’m a strong believer in cold approach. And one thing that kinda gets on my nerves is why does it have to be at a bar specifically or a girl who I see everyday in the elevator? Wtf?! Alex, I want to ask you: is it possible to get a girlfriend by literally seeing a cute girl on the STREET or anywhere random, approaching her with good game (she doesn’t even have to give me “choosing signals”) we vibe, I get her number, we go on a date, we hook up and then we start dating and she’s my girlfriend now? I’m sick of all the YouTube content, I just want to get out there and get to work by approaching. I just want to know if this is possible, that’s it. Just to add: in terms of smv: I’m 6ft tall, good looking (people have told me), in shape, financial situation is moving in a positive direction because I’ll be moving out pretty soon within the next 6-8 months, hopefully, my age is 23 and I dress well. So no need to mention smv over and over again.
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I'm not Alex but you're pretty much answering your question here: "Alex, I want to ask you: is it possible to get a girlfriend by literally seeing a cute girl on the STREET or anywhere random, approaching her with a good game (she doesn’t even have to give me “choosing signals”) we vibe, I get her number, we go on a date, we hook up and then we start dating and she’s my girlfriend now?"
Here's a short Alex did of how simple a street approach can be with a bit of luck: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/Efit5LN5a3g
I will say my experience has always when dating is that as long as I'm consistent with the woman (texting, dating, fucking her well) she will eventually either ask "Hey what are we?" or "accidentally" call you her boyfriend and watch your reaction. So the woman is the one that decides she wants to progress the relationship, if you try to it always ended in disaster for me.
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Appreciate it man. I think YouTube and online has completely fucked up the concept of dating, how it works and everything. I’ve pretty much gone through all the self improvement content you can think of: red pill, black pill, Andrew Tate, Austin Dunham, all these dumbasses who have no clue what they’re talking about. I love Alex’s videos and the advice you have just given.
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Sounds like you have overindulged in the self-improvement videos. My advice is to choose 3 channels MAX to follow that match with your goals