So as a beginner ; I am getting over my approach anxiety! I got rejected 4 times today because they have boyfriends with them but it was hard to understand that they are dating or not. I got 6 numbers in 20 min. Also I always went for the 8 or above and the thing that I realized that sure there are so many girls out there ho gon reject but also there are so many who is down for a good time but the thing that I don't understand is; the big deal is getting the number or being able to close? Because I make my intent clear and when I get the number I say that '' Well if you behave we might go on a date sometime'' they laugh and shit then I leave. On my last post, I talked about the situation that I got in; it was on a date with a girl who has a bf and everything was going good yet I pussy out to kiss close her. So I set up a date with another girl for Thursday to my house to cook and drink wine etc. This time I really want to seal the deal or even if I can not have sex I want to be able to kiss.Ps: I am a virgin. What could be the date structure for a house date?
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yes man to be honest as you said this is the only forum and reliable source to learn game.UMP as wll but alex is taking big big time to teach everyone something ot at least give feed back.I hope in this journey you will see this lil man grow into a pussy magnet haha.After wasting my time on rsd content on youtube finally here I feel like learning.Also man if you have any tips shoot them right away.Id appreciate it .Thanks a lot
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Haha. You guys flatter me. One other piece of advice I have for you is to commit to doing a progressive desensitization challenge. I did one when I first got into game and it definitely helped with approach anxiety and what not. Basically, you commit to doing harder and harder things everyday for a period of time. I think the last day consisted of going up to 10 girls and straight up asking them if they want to fuck in the first sentence or something like that. Truth be told, you'd actually be surprised at the results you get. Day 10 was something like going upto girls and straight up inviting them for coffee in the first sentence. I think that 1 out of 3 girls said yes! Very eye opening and helps kill approach anxiety
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That is actually a brilliant idea!! I will try it once I get a bit more comfortable but the thing is let's say you went up to a girl and the interaction went well or badly doesn't matter so do you wait to approach because people see you doing it or girl is still standing there? because if I don't wait and go for another one right away people gon be like this boy is thirsty as fuck and can't even get a girl blah blah.