So as a beginner ; I am getting over my approach anxiety! I got rejected 4 times today because they have boyfriends with them but it was hard to understand that they are dating or not. I got 6 numbers in 20 min. Also I always went for the 8 or above and the thing that I realized that sure there are so many girls out there ho gon reject but also there are so many who is down for a good time but the thing that I don't understand is; the big deal is getting the number or being able to close? Because I make my intent clear and when I get the number I say that '' Well if you behave we might go on a date sometime'' they laugh and shit then I leave. On my last post, I talked about the situation that I got in; it was on a date with a girl who has a bf and everything was going good yet I pussy out to kiss close her. So I set up a date with another girl for Thursday to my house to cook and drink wine etc. This time I really want to seal the deal or even if I can not have sex I want to be able to kiss.Ps: I am a virgin. What could be the date structure for a house date?
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That is actually a brilliant idea!! I will try it once I get a bit more comfortable but the thing is let's say you went up to a girl and the interaction went well or badly doesn't matter so do you wait to approach because people see you doing it or girl is still standing there? because if I don't wait and go for another one right away people gon be like this boy is thirsty as fuck and can't even get a girl blah blah.
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Well, that's the point of the challenge. To help you not give a fuck. I promise, people are not thinking/judging you nearly as much as you think they are. People are mainly self absorbed and mainly only think about themselves
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I will go out today again because earlier in the day I did and I did nothing beside making excuses but this time I will do it.Thanks man ,I appreciate it that you look out for us