Interesting curveball that I wasn't expecting. For context, I got drinks with this girl a week ago. Flirting, escalation, vibe was on point. Ended up eating her out and getting some head. Hit her up today and got this back, having trouble reading between the lines on it. Any ideas?
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Ah then she prob just doesn't see you as a "good option". Cute girls have lots of options and why would she wanna mess around with oral again when she knows she can get good dick somewhere else. You lost some points in her book and it's gonna be hard to recover.
If you gave her the best she's ever had, she wouldn't need to "think about it". If you look at Alex's love reports you can see how enthusiastic the girls are about going for round 2. In your situation you need to do some digging and get her to admit her "concern" about having mediocre sex again and then address it. She's not going to chase if you like the message in this situation because you didn't address her concern. I would playfully call her out and say "no you won't ;)" or "what do you need to 'think' about". Good luck
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Appreciate the help. Went with, "what do you need to think about" and basically got "convince me, give me a reason."
Not a fan of this frame because I don't want to get into qualifying myself to her, interesting situation.
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Actually I read this as she’s still intrigued but she may have lost a bit of attraction/value and just wants to see that you’re really for her. Girls need to qualify too. I don’t like the frame that qualification is a one way street. Supplication is different tho. You should never supplicate. She wants to know she’s not just a fuck. That she’s a least a little special. And not just meat. Bring humor back and get the vibe going again. Avoid sexualization for a little bit, just vibe like you were re gaming her from the beginning. Build back your value
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Yeah no need to qualify yourself. Just say “I’ll start by spanking the brat out of you.”
On a subconscious level you’re basically saying I’m not cool with this behavior and if you act up I’m going to put you in your place.