Interesting curveball that I wasn't expecting. For context, I got drinks with this girl a week ago. Flirting, escalation, vibe was on point. Ended up eating her out and getting some head. Hit her up today and got this back, having trouble reading between the lines on it. Any ideas?

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Sloppiness on my part. Forgot a condom, she wasn't cool with going raw.

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Ah then she prob just doesn't see you as a "good option". Cute girls have lots of options and why would she wanna mess around with oral again when she knows she can get good dick somewhere else. You lost some points in her book and it's gonna be hard to recover.

If you gave her the best she's ever had, she wouldn't need to "think about it". If you look at Alex's love reports you can see how enthusiastic the girls are about going for round 2. In your situation you need to do some digging and get her to admit her "concern" about having mediocre sex again and then address it. She's not going to chase if you like the message in this situation because you didn't address her concern. I would playfully call her out and say "no you won't ;)" or "what do you need to 'think' about". Good luck

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Appreciate the help. Went with, "what do you need to think about" and basically got "convince me, give me a reason."
Not a fan of this frame because I don't want to get into qualifying myself to her, interesting situation.

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Why didn't you try to get head. Im looking at the thought of just going down on a chick and getting nothing in return. It's like Jonah hill in that one movie

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I did get head.

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