A few months ago I went on a hike with some friends, and this cute girl was there. We talked a little, got along, but I was seeing someone else at the time. I recently decided to try yoga, and low and behold, this chick was teaching the class(fyi, these classes are full of good looking women). I asked her out after class last week, and she said yes, and suggested a hike. Said cool, got her number, and immediately texted her my name. I didn't get a response. What should I do? Appreciate your work Alex and Indian PE
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also, there's another rule of thumb to keep the interaction down to 2-10 minutes max asking for dates. the longer the interaction, the less likely the date. There's so many rules to this, which is why you pretty much have to juggle multiple matches when dating as to keep the natural abundance mentality. or juggle life between dates so she's less a priority.
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asked her, and she double checked she gave me the right number. Told me to text her again saying she never got them(I was kinda surprised she would straight face justify her ghosting), and I did: "do all cute guys from yoga go straight to spam?" - heard nothing back. Kicked myself for not telling her to text me instead. I did a good job of not being needy asking her, I was just curious since she was super friendly again.
An hour ago she texts saying she just got them. hahahaha. i want to believe that, but man, what a strange one.