So then I arranged a date on Thursday. The day of the date she cancels and said she had to go back home to London (she really is in London though I’ve seen it in her story). How can I try secure the date? She didn’t reply to my last message. Should I double text? Please help
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2y ago
J
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39 Posts (+1), 57 Cmts (+6)
Thanks man my text game is bad. What should I do if she doesn’t reply within 5 days. Should I say something like “didn’t think you were the flakey type?”. The reason I think I should pursue it is after I had sex with her she seemed super into me and told me that she wants to go on a date but now I’m not sure if she’s still interested.
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Ball is her court right now man, you've given her an explicit indication that you would like to see her again and that's that. You really gotta be careful about being too full on or needy so I'd recommend you to just leave it and focus your attention on more pressing issues. Sounds like you want a relationship yourself since shes got you questioning the ONS status? If so then please don't be fucking gamey now with that "didn't think you were the flakey type" bullshit. Those lines work in certain contexts but in this case it's not gonna make her cream her panties, especially after the DLV saying you lost your job.
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I don’t think saying I lost my job was bad and I told her I was joking afterwards. The reason I don’t think it’s bad is that she’s only 19 and we’re both university students and all of us work shitty part time jobs. But anyway the rest of the context is that I saw her again last night in a nightclub and I kissed her and she kept looking at me. But she still hasn’t replied so I think I’ll just leave it.