Matched with this girl before the holidays. I was out of town for three weeks so the interaction had a bit of a delay in it. I tried soft closing last weekend and she was “sick” and now says this. I feel like this usually means she’s not interested or has some other objection. Haven’t had to use any takeaways or anything up to this point. Thoughts? Maybe go with “ah that sounds stressful, but honestly I’m busy too. I’m sure if we put our heads together we could find an hour to grab a quick drink or coffee”