Makes no sense bro... nothing in the last message was qualifying, and saying "of course" is no different to saying "yes". Despite popular belief "If that's cool" is not a takeaway... it doesn't take attention away it just asks for her approval and makes her the judge of what's cool.
It kinda does make sense. It's better to just say yes , but also just saying of course does work as well. And, you're right actually, qualifying was not the word I was looking for. But I will say this... It does surprise me that you are in the mastermind, and you believe "if that's cool," no offense, is not a takeaway. Especially in this situation, it is the only one that fits, and it doesn't take attention away from his text, nor does it ask for approval. It's a non-needy nudge that sticks with the frame. Not doing this would skip the opportunity for her to invest in, which is what you want her to do here... What would you say though , @[Max Fox]
It's a touchy situation, I don't like to be negative about anyone on here. In the end I did comment because I was concerned that Dwayne might mistake your confidence for competence. Your recent posts from Snapchat suggest that you're still at the start of your journey to mastery.
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Makes no sense bro... nothing in the last message was qualifying, and saying "of course" is no different to saying "yes". Despite popular belief "If that's cool" is not a takeaway... it doesn't take attention away it just asks for her approval and makes her the judge of what's cool.
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It kinda does make sense. It's better to just say yes , but also just saying of course does work as well. And, you're right actually, qualifying was not the word I was looking for. But I will say this... It does surprise me that you are in the mastermind, and you believe "if that's cool," no offense, is not a takeaway. Especially in this situation, it is the only one that fits, and it doesn't take attention away from his text, nor does it ask for approval. It's a non-needy nudge that sticks with the frame. Not doing this would skip the opportunity for her to invest in, which is what you want her to do here... What would you say though , @[Max Fox]
5 Posts (+2), 372 Cmts (+206)
It's a touchy situation, I don't like to be negative about anyone on here. In the end I did comment because I was concerned that Dwayne might mistake your confidence for competence. Your recent posts from Snapchat suggest that you're still at the start of your journey to mastery.