Hey guys, here’s a fun one I’m stuck on. It wouldn’t be an understatement to say that bratty girls are my weak point. She came into this interaction already with quite a bit of attitude. I went with a playful misinterpretation of her hope in my abilities by saying she already has her hopes up about me. She took the literal interpretation and shut it down. My roommate came up with the last line which I thought was funny af so I sent it for the self amusement but it doesn’t leave much room to keep the interaction going in a positive way. Couple of questions: Would my messages have come off as more obvious jokes if I added a smirking emoji? Should I have said something differently? Is there a way to keep this going while also making her ego take a step down so this can actually go somewhere? Maybe with “am I wrong?” Or something of the sort?
Posts by Suraj B
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Girl from Coffeemeetsbagel who is 26. I’m 24 and usually date girls my age or younger so I never got the “you’re too young” objection before (although a 2 year difference isn’t much but seems to be for her) How do I call this out/reframe/recover/whatever. Came up very randomly the day after our last exchange.
I've been noticing that a majority of the "likes" I get are from girls outside of the distance range that I set (15 miles). I can tell this is happening because every now and then I'll see a girl pop up that's 30+ miles away despite my distance settings and if I swipe right it's an automatic match every time. I don't know if Tinder is purposely showing my profile more to girls farther away to entice me to buy Gold or not but I find it pretty sleazy.
Got 20+ likes in the first 24 hours of my last reset but after a few weeks now I’m lucky to get a match without paying for a boost. Open to feedback and criticisms.
Had a tinder match I was trying to set up a date with who told me she’ll confirm the day before. She didn’t so I asked for a confirmation. Also got no response until a few hours later saying she was getting dicked down. Definitely ruins me wanting to wine and dine her, but it does tell me she’s possibly dtf. How should I go forward? Do I let the ball stay in her court and let the convo die, or should I say something a day or two later? If so, what?
