Random “too young” shit test. How do I proceed?
Girl from Coffeemeetsbagel who is 26. I’m 24 and usually date girls my age or younger so I never got the “you’re too young” objection before (although a 2 year difference isn’t much but seems to be for her)
How do I call this out/reframe/recover/whatever. Came up very randomly the day after our last exchange.
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Bro I literally just had this happen last night, I completely blew it off lol. And said something along the lines of “you’re 2 years older than me relax, I’ve been with women way older than you lol”
Thanks, I said something along this line and also called her out and asked what her concern was. Turns out she wants to settle down, have babies and quit her job so that's a hard no for me. Left the ball in her court by saying if she wants something casual in the meantime I'm down which she said she might take me up on but we'll see.
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say "would you prefer if i was old and decrepit"