"I'll show you what ruined really looks like. You look pristine."

You're making a mess of this and it doesn't even make sense. She's just giving you enough rope to hang yourself and you're doing just that. Get out of her shit tests with something like "If you don't understand then I guess I'll have to show you" then change the subject.

These are all good, logical responses, but I feel they only serve to appease her and jump through her hoops. By giving direct, sincere responses to a question intentionally designed to trip you up and filter you and just telling her what she "wants to hear", you are entirely surrendering your frame and doing what every other beta does. I've slept with hundreds of girls I've met off apps and in my experience that response, as logical as it sounds, never works.

She might just be taking her time.

Or, if it's a case of her not wanting to give her number out, give her your number and tell her to text you hers. This shows comfort and trust and will almost always move things to text. If on the rare occasion she doesn't message within a reasonable period, say "Hey where's my text?". And of nothing after that, next because you know she's not serious.