What’s the best way to follow up when the girl doesn’t give you her number off the app
So on Tuesday I made plans with this girl for us to meet up this Saturday. As you can see from the messages she seems like she has high interest in the conversation. When I eventually go for the close she doesn’t give me any type of resistance or concern, the conversations pretty straight forward from what I can tell. She even ask if I wanted to meet at her house or mine, so to me she seems like she’s pretty down to meet Saturday. Plus she’s was responding in a timely manner. Now what I don’t understand is why would she be responsive and down to meet but when I asked her for her number she just doesn’t respond? Is it because she’s probably not comfortable with giving her number out? Also the date is technically more than 48 hours out. Do I follow up with a take away with her not responding to number close Friday or should I just wait until the day of date on Saturday? I know in previous videos Alex says that you number close the girl and get her off the app once making solid plans with her. He says that this will let you know if she’s serious about meeting or not, but what I don’t understand is how the conversation flowed this well this but she didn’t give me her number. Maybe I’m missing something
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74 Posts (+15), 177 Cmts (+53)
Just reengage ''did i already leave you speechless ?'' or something along those lines.
Did something happen ? Did she send you something or have you just been too imaptient ?
Even if you try to force the date, chances are sex won't happen, simply because you don't let things flow, just set up something new.
She might just be taking her time.
Or, if it's a case of her not wanting to give her number out, give her your number and tell her to text you hers. This shows comfort and trust and will almost always move things to text. If on the rare occasion she doesn't message within a reasonable period, say "Hey where's my text?". And of nothing after that, next because you know she's not serious.
536 Posts (+164), 850 Cmts (+529)
Make sure you wait 2-3 days
"Or carrier pigeons will do"
If she doesn't respond to that then I go with "Don't be shy"
"If you're too nervous I'd understand" If you actually feel like she's being hesitant
7 Posts (+3), 50 Cmts (+28)
I agree with Bryan. 48 hours, then send a persistence message. The examples he gave are all great. Save them for later as well, the more you have the better.