Comments by Josh Elk
Joined 6y agodont think she's blowing you off, she's invested a lot already and this sounds like a legitimate excuse.
Don't open with this, because then you can't use again it as an actual line (girls almost never respond to openers).
Going with this but curious so I can improve my textgame.. why the decision to not escalate off this? is it too early / want to not give her the prize frame?
"only one way to find out" (rationale: this girl has stuck around in the convo over the course of a few days but given very limited responses. given that, i'm not sure what the right next step is...Ideally I'd find a way to get more investment, qualifying and get her chasing a bit but since i don't know how to do that I'd rather just move it forward)
general game question for these types of situations going forward: for a girl who gives minimal responses like this but DOES continue to engage over many messages, does going for the soft close here make sense or is it smarter to try to get her to invest more and chase? If latter, how would you do that?
Great text but I sent something before I saw this, will be more patient in future. How's this for my next text (see what's in text box in pic)
Gave it a few days. No reply since Thurs. I'm not sure what the move is here since my last text didn't require a response (though if she was higher interest, she would have). How do I bring interest level up from this point? I could do not super talkative are you.. but feels a little aggressive. Takeaway of some sort?




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nice. if she responds then "wine on my romantic roof" or something else