Erin Hinge - minimal investment

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J

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J

38 Posts (+4), 71 Cmts (+5)

I keep getting her to qualify and she does, but it's minimal answers.

Thinking - "what'll you cook to impress me on our date? "

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avilench . Avatar

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Nah that text is likely gonna turn her off “Ah so I can expect something yummy in the near future ;)”

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J

38 Posts (+4), 71 Cmts (+5)

Great text but I sent something before I saw this, will be more patient in future. How's this for my next text (see what's in text box in pic)

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Dennis Ejorh Avatar

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“A potential cook-off when we hang”

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P

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avilench . Avatar

393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)

Go with Dennis text

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P

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M

34 Posts (+1), 203 Cmts (+77)

id avoid interview mode like youve set up here

and also elevating her priority in the convo so high where all you do is talk about her her her

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J

38 Posts (+4), 71 Cmts (+5)

"only one way to find out" (rationale: this girl has stuck around in the convo over the course of a few days but given very limited responses. given that, i'm not sure what the right next step is...Ideally I'd find a way to get more investment, qualifying and get her chasing a bit but since i don't know how to do that I'd rather just move it forward)

general game question for these types of situations going forward: for a girl who gives minimal responses like this but DOES continue to engage over many messages, does going for the soft close here make sense or is it smarter to try to get her to invest more and chase? If latter, how would you do that?

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Dennis Ejorh Avatar

11 Posts (+22), 395 Cmts (+179)

At this point, IF you want more investment...you can build on the competition theme. Only make it sound like it is still a win for both parties.

Example: “if only you knew what 2nd place gets you...”

Emojis are at your discretion

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