so basically i went on a date with this girl then she had to go out of the city for some work for a week or two, how frequent should i call or text her in this to maximize attraction? and should i escalate slowly on text or calls? also there's this another girl i approached got her number we just introduced ourself on text and didnt talk after much next day i ran into her again in the mall and we talked i asked her out that time and she said she free next week, i told her aight ill call u next week she said okay now should i acc wait and call her monday or should i text smthg between ?