going on dates with this girl she is initiating and asking me on dates but im kinda confused we both know we cant do serious relationships, i told her im looking for something short term too, ive broken the touch barrier and gave her a kiss on forehead thats it in our last date , we been to two dates but they were a month apart lol cuz she was not in the city for a month now sometimes i notice that she doesnt rly like holding hands while walking well that's fine its just something ive noticed as when i grab her hand she holds but after a while she lets go

also i flirt and stuff with her but i dont know how do i escalate this to a kiss, ive a another date with her tmrw and i want it to when i go for the kiss but idk how to do that tbh to make the convo flow in such direction that a kiss is obvious common sense and not crazy

in the past ive had dates where flowing the convo in such direction felt easy but with this girl it doesnt feel easy to take the convo in that direction part of the reason is she loves talking abt her interests and we got so many similar interests that i fkn end up talking abt them alot of times and flirt a lil in between but still am i hurrying or should i just not try to hurry keep it slow as i think she is the type of girl who takes time to be comfy and open up