So context: we matched on tinder, she said i was cute, but when it came to logistics of meeting up a few days ago I sent some cringey texts saying what if I get too drunk and can't drive home, she said i could crash there.. I said "I might as long as you don't bite ;)" and she blocked me.. but not my number. So today I texted her and thus is how it looks so far, where would you take this? I obviously need to play it more careful here and she isn't very sexual or direct at all, she doesn't seem DTF and tbh is kind of a negative person it seems.. we had a phone call after matching and thats the vibe I picked up. She's still hot af though so any advice is appreciate guys!
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I would try and reframe the conversation. You shouldn't have texted "So you gonna block me again or give this another shot" because if she was gonna block you she would have already done it and it puts her in a position of power over you and makes you seem desperate.
You need to figure out what her concern is and address that. Hard to give advice without seeing the other screenshots. If she had concerns over the meetup only being for sex address that emotionally and dismiss it.
If she is simply creeped out by your previous messages then try to emotionally address her last message reasoning that from what you gathered over the phone call you had chemistry and you would like to further explore this over the phone and get to know her. Avoid making it sound butthurt tho.
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Ok so how would you put that into words for the next text response? I still haven't replied. We had planned on me going there to drink and smoke together and that's it.. she's never been sexual all she ever said was that she thinks I'm cute. But she doesn't seem flirty at all she even said she is a boring person lol, but she's hot. So idk what should I respond with next to get it going in the right direction like you mentioned?