Matched with a hotty on Feeld, what to follow up with is my dilemma. I tried to match with her on Hinge so I know she looks good. Never heard back on that app. That was months ago and can't remember what I messaged her on there. But she's definitely my type so want my best odds at making it work. Anyway cut-to this last Sunday and I saw her on Feeble so I liked her and we matched so she liked my profile first. She has no Bio and only showing her (vanilla) kinks on her profile. She only has one photo So my opener was just " Hello mystery woman, I like your style." She's defiantly has seen it and has been on every day. Since this is Feeble and my first tru match ( it's slim pickings on there in my area) just want to get some feedback before I reengage on there. Some ideas: I can’t tell if you are innocent or a absolute baddie? - think this is rewarding none compliance? I wonder if you’re my type... - I haven't had much success with this one on reengaging? Also rewarding none compliance? Can I be honest with you... -Again haven had much success with this one Are you nervous about matching with me? ;) - is kind of my best line on this one. What do you guys think? It hasn't been that long so I'm in no hurry but I also don't want to let too much time go by. Thinking of responding on Friday, 5 days after opener?
Posts by Rob Alberto
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So I'm in a bit of a unique position. It is currently April 2022. I am moving across the country for several reason in June 2022. With Hinge I changed my location to my destination just to check things out, and see what the dating is like in my future destination. Well I got a couple of likes (thanks to PWF profile tips I guess) I had not planned on activation my profile until I settle at my new spot. But some of the likes I got are hot. So the question: Should I just hold off until I get there to respond? Or do I start now and let them know I will not be there until June? I don't mind waiting. It's not like I'm gonna get laid. But thought I'd check to make sure this is the right move?
Opened this girl on Hinge. Trying to vibe with her but she start with shit test. I think I responded as well as I could figure out. But she still playing hard to get and being a bit self depreciating. I honestly don't know if she's waiting my time or if its another Shit test or something else. I don't want to qualify myself, kina feels like that's what she wants? I'm thinking I should call it out with something like: -"Alright "Shy handful" what are you looking for here?" -or "introverted handful, what a combo?" another message "can I be honest with you?" another message after she responds: " I think you got a wild side, and I wanna see it" -"Boy your really bad at this online dating thing huh haha." another message "what are you looking for here then?" I want to get this girl cus dam son shes my type. But if shes a time waster I also don't want to keep going. But she's throwing me off with responding but also saying she's not my type. Suggestions, opinions any help fellas thanks as always.
Fellas. Tried to find a similar post but no luck. Been here a couple of days and learning, reading and applying as best I can. Text game things are going okay. Still making stupid mistakes. This last one confused me. And looking for suggestions. Things were going well we were flirting and connecting on interest. She gave me her scheduled and I tried to move things to text . I sent her my number to text me. But she didn't text and is still responding in the app. She also waited last minute to suggest a day. I could make it work. As I don't have time for another week. Wanna see her so I think my cock is confusing me haha. Also don't know if that's rewarding a potential flake behavior? She has kids also, but how she responded after the Ryan meme confused a bit. She seemed really into me with the new years text. I was thinking of messaging her back that it's too late to make plans for tonight now. And call her out on not texting me. With something like "should have text me I missed this until just now" That's true I didn't check the app until late in the day. Some context -I'm recently separated from my ex a couple of months so I've been out of the game for over 10 years. Still learning the ropes but having fun. -I'm 40 and have kids so most of the woman I'm chatting with are in a age range of 32-45. logistics are always a issue even before this last Covid Omicron thing. -I just move into my place at the start of the year. Though clean and largely set up still some minor things to fix. Mainly decor as it's a Air BB. Anyway thank Alex and everyone on here I have learned a lot.
