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First I want to thanks Alex and Indian PE for all the guides I've manage to get from 1-2 likes a week to around 5-10 likes and 3-5 matches from 7+ women a day!! in a country of around 9M people - a lot of them actually opens me and asking for my number (I'll write down everything that helped me so I can give back to the community) Now my main question is: Because I didn't get enough volume when I started applying the methods of playing with fire, most of my matches were kind of receptive to meet the quality wasn't so great (6-7) but I wanted to start with something just to get things going Now when I'm getting matches from mostly 7,8,9's the game became difficult I'm getting tons of numbers but I get flaked on in very high rates and it's not like there is some kind of emotional low or stuff like that... some of the conversations are pretty fun and then they just.. disappear or they just wont commit to a meetup, in principle they do, but when I ask for a schedule they just change the subject or ignore it completely and when I use takeaways I get a response like: "sorry I was busy bla bla" and when I ask then for a meetup after few sentences later they flake again and it's not like I can't get a response if I want (some disappear completely but this is a part of the game and I accept it even if they are very hot) but it's like I get friend zoned over text sometimes it's weird I have a lot to work on in my text game for sure... but I think I'm too extreme and can't find my balance, it's either I'm too "boring" or too "gamy" but I will post here an example of a conversation from some 8-9 I met on bumble (it's not in English so I'll write it down) To put a context to this conversation, she told me she's not on bumble a lot and it takes her a lot of time to answer so I told her to give me her WhatsApp number and if I'm a psycho she can just block me because this is what I do (everything in a fun way of course) and it was Saturday so its a beach day me: Hi there, its (my name) the (not) cute psycho her: (triple text) more like cutie cuz you are very small and compacted (it's a joke because I'm 6.7) me: I'm usually the one the call the other side tiny, you nickname thief her: (triple text) haha woo wii which beach are you going today ? can you help me find a parking spot from above ? (another tall joke) me: I told you before, I'll pick you up and you can look for yourself :) to be honest, today I'm resting with my dogs, which beach are you going to? her: (double text) (name) beach are you from (city)? me: i'm from(city) (name) beach is not text to the dog beach? her: I think its near by me: want to feel like a celeb? her: (double text) im already a celeb but lets hear me: me and you walking together on the dog's beach you with your beauty me with my tallness and this guy: (here I sent her a picture of my friend and my 220lbs dog) her: (double text) sounds like a experience I'll never forget :) which guy, the one on the left or the right? me: Take a guess ;) and that's it.... she disappeared... she didn't even leave me on read, she didn't even read the message I tried one take away 24hours later but it didn't work, she don't even read my messages any advice on this exchange here? (it will help the other ones for sure) as for my rapid success I'm tall (6/7) and I'm trying to show it as much as possible I went to a friend's wedding and took a pictures with very nice clothing and backgrounds that's it basically, my bio is a bit long but I just used playing with fire bio principles the nice pictures of me with a nice suit and others with sport elegant clothes did the trick :)

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Hi everyone, first i want to say thank you to alex youtube and blog tips because of this, i have tons of matches and nice conversations with women , now i need help with closing the deals (if you dont want to read the full story I summarized it in bullet points in the end of the thread) i met a cute chick on tinder and i knew 100% she want to get laid the same day she was super invested and gave me her number after 10 sentences we scheduled to meet up at her place (15 min drive from mine) and when I entered her apartment and we set down her body language was open to me, she played with her hair and looked at my dick every 10 seconds in short she wanted me to escalate.... for some freaking reason I didnt know how... usually im ok with escalation but as much as her was open about her feelings with her body language she was very boring with the way she spoke, she looked like she is going to fall asleep any minute now. and for some reason i started talking to her about her life and shit with the hope of making the conversation more interesting so i could escalate easier but it only made the meeting more boring I even tried the 3 conversation topics alex recommended to make a conversation interesting and it didnt work, for example i asked her "what kind of men you like" she said, i dont really have a type, im fine either way... this is the level of boring haha i tried to kiss her after i saw she is ok with me touching her legs but she moved her head and the conversation got boring no matter how much i tried to revive it, i even stopped talking for like 20 seconds and she didnt try to get it back on track and this is why I actually left her place after one hour, because she didnt get a good night sleep the day before and she kept yawning at me so i told her, i got to leave because its not fun to talk to someone that is falling a sleep right infront of me and she said im fine either way she is not down to meeting again, she said "we are not vibing the same" in short: she was super invested in the beginning (she even texted me saying "where are you" 30 minutes before we scheduled) she played with her hair and looked at my dick every 10 seconds when we first met but was very boring verbally so I didn't know how to escalate after i started talking about her life and stuff she moved away from me and started getting more and more tired and i even tried to use the 3 conversation topics to revive the conversation but she answered very boringly i tried to kiss her but she moved her head but she was fine with me touching her legs gently with my fingers i left her place after she didnt stop yawning and almost fell a sleep on me saying she slept for 5 hours last night i know i could have fucked her, she was sending me clear signals but i didnt know what to do because she didnt opened up verbally at all!! even when she played with her hair and looked at my dick she was boring AF edit: i was able to use my sales tactics to get her back on track with meeting me for a second date ( i can post what i said to her if anyone is interested) now i need some tips to not fuck it up again haha

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hi there, need help with something I met a chick that is into anime like me and she came to my place the first time we dated we didn't have sex but after 2 meetings we did and it was very good but for some reason the more time went on, the less invested she became she sent me more messages and ask more for validation BEFORE we even had some kind of sexual interaction we did had a setback (because of a stupid comment i made about me not wanting her for anything serious) but i fixed it by saying something like "i was in a bad day and although im not going to apologize for it (it is what it is) i do understand that i came off a bit weird and all i meant is im not planning anything i want our thing to progress naturally" and we laughed about it and everything was ok

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