First I want to thanks Alex and Indian PE for all the guides
I've manage to get from 1-2 likes a week to around 5-10 likes and 3-5 matches from 7+ women a day!! in a country of around 9M people - a lot of them actually opens me and asking for my number
(I'll write down everything that helped me so I can give back to the community)
Now my main question is:
Because I didn't get enough volume when I started applying the methods of playing with fire, most of my matches were kind of receptive to meet
the quality wasn't so great (6-7) but I wanted to start with something just to get things going
Now when I'm getting matches from mostly 7,8,9's the game became difficult
I'm getting tons of numbers but I get flaked on in very high rates
and it's not like there is some kind of emotional low or stuff like that... some of the conversations are pretty fun and then they just.. disappear
or they just wont commit to a meetup, in principle they do, but when I ask for a schedule they just change the subject or ignore it completely
and when I use takeaways I get a response like: "sorry I was busy bla bla" and when I ask then for a meetup after few sentences later they flake again
and it's not like I can't get a response if I want (some disappear completely but this is a part of the game and I accept it even if they are very hot)
but it's like I get friend zoned over text sometimes it's weird
I have a lot to work on in my text game for sure... but I think I'm too extreme and can't find my balance, it's either I'm too "boring" or too "gamy"
but I will post here an example of a conversation from some 8-9 I met on bumble (it's not in English so I'll write it down)
To put a context to this conversation, she told me she's not on bumble a lot and it takes her a lot of time to answer so I told her to give me her WhatsApp number and if I'm a psycho she can just block me because this is what I do (everything in a fun way of course) and it was Saturday so its a beach day
me: Hi there, its (my name) the (not) cute psycho
her: (triple text)
more like cutie
cuz you are very small
and compacted
(it's a joke because I'm 6.7)
me: I'm usually the one the call the other side tiny, you nickname thief
her: (triple text)
haha woo wii
which beach are you going today ?
can you help me find a parking spot from above ?
(another tall joke)
me: I told you before, I'll pick you up and you can look for yourself :)
to be honest, today I'm resting with my dogs, which beach are you going to?
her: (double text)
(name) beach
are you from (city)?
me: i'm from(city)
(name) beach is not text to the dog beach?
her: I think its near by
me: want to feel like a celeb?
her: (double text)
im already a celeb
but lets hear
me: me and you walking together on the dog's beach
you with your beauty
me with my tallness
and this guy: (here I sent her a picture of my friend and my 220lbs dog)
her: (double text) sounds like a experience I'll never forget :)
which guy, the one on the left or the right?
me: Take a guess ;)
and that's it.... she disappeared... she didn't even leave me on read, she didn't even read the message
I tried one take away 24hours later but it didn't work, she don't even read my messages
any advice on this exchange here? (it will help the other ones for sure)
as for my rapid success
- I'm tall (6/7) and I'm trying to show it as much as possible
- I went to a friend's wedding and took a pictures with very nice clothing and backgrounds
that's it basically, my bio is a bit long but I just used playing with fire bio principles
the nice pictures of me with a nice suit and others with sport elegant clothes did the trick :)
