hi there, need help with something
I met a chick that is into anime like me and she came to my place the first time we dated
we didn't have sex but after 2 meetings we did and it was very good
but for some reason the more time went on, the less invested she became
she sent me more messages and ask more for validation BEFORE we even had some kind of sexual interaction
we did had a setback (because of a stupid comment i made about me not wanting her for anything serious)
but i fixed it by saying something like "i was in a bad day and although im not going to apologize for it (it is what it is) i do understand that i came off a bit weird and all i meant is im not planning anything i want our thing to progress naturally"
and we laughed about it and everything was ok
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Gotcha. I don't think just by you apologizing, the issue has resolved itself. She probably felt insulted that you would say that and maybe she is looking for something serious. Now, she is probably weighing out other options. I would just give her space. If she is meeting up, she is invested
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thats fine i fixed it by saying i was in a shitty day and although im not going to apologize for it because this is who i am and she got to see me at my worst and this is fine
we are fuck buddies now :)
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Awesome