Still a soft close, but got things rolling again. Let's see what I can close here

Good thing I waited.. she just texted..

20-40 min maybe more if a lot of drinks involved. If I'm really attracted to her I can be ready in 10-20 depending if I've cum a lot recently. One of my fave tricks to last longer if I'm sensitive is to tell her I'm feeling sensitive and alternate between sex and kissing her all over fingering her.. just ask if she gets desensitized as some chicks can't come if you work their clit too hard

Yup, thanks for your thoughts

It looks to my novice eye that you kept more banter going than necessary and did ask for her #. Kind of lost focus on the date, although you prob should have gone for something other than dinner to start imo. I reopened with gal on an app I was having difficulty committing to a date by saying "Maybe it will be easier to arrange our date by text. What's your #"

Clarification: your place if viable, out if you feel you must

She's twice previously said yes to splitting a bottle of wine, and second time she avoided giving me availability. She loved the msg about splitting the bottle above

Offer to take her to dessert either at your place or out

I'd say: sorry to hear, bad break ups are tough. what are you concerned about with our date? Fortunately we'll have fun and melt any stress away with some cathartic laughs