I need some advice and I don’t know if here is the right place tbh, but I’ll try anyway since all the feedback I’ve had here before has been great.  I recently lost my v to an older milf a few months back, and we have insane sexual chemistry, we keep seeing each other and the dynamics are fire. The issue is, I’m experiencing the infamous can’t cum problem most guys get when they first start laying pipe, most definitely due to being not used to the v and being a “hand” guy up until now. The good news is I do everything else right, I make her cum with my hands, intense kisses, but my penetration technique needs work, it’s hit and miss, sometimes i cant Even find her hole in time and get flaccid, and I ain’t really feeling too much stimulation by the vagina yet though it’s slowly changing, it ain’t dramatic. basically I’m doing 90% of the stuff by the book, to the point where she doesn’t even believe that it’s my first few times, but the penetration and the cumming part are something I need some fixes with, maybe it’s just a time thing? Keep at it until it falls into place? No doubt some performance anxiety plays a part.  
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I matched this girl weeks ago on the app was all ok, but she told me she’s a shit texter on the app, proceeded and got her number but she didn’t reply to my opening message. I then reverted back to the app and called her out for ghosting after a couple weeks and as you can see she apologised and messaged back on my phone, but then proceeded to not reply again. Then the last message I got from her weeks ago after my final takeaway was a upset emoji... Any advice on what the next step is? I’ve resorted to just leave this one for now since she’s inconsistent but maybe it’s worth salvaging in a week or so?
A while back this girl blocked me because I was teasing her a bit. I tried Alex method of messaging using a different number with those app. No luck. It’s been months since then, I wanna try and see if her mental health has changed since she was a nut case. Any alternatives I can try without coming across as being a creep or overstepping boundaries ?
The apps are in a major decline I’ve noticed, from my own experience but also others on here. Hinge is still solid but the others are going through bad patches in terms of quality of women, bots etc. I’ve had an IG for a year but I don’t really use it and it’s got zero followers, I made it to try and test myself with DM girls but as expected it didn’t work at all. The dilemma is that on the apps I’ll match girls with 10k -100k (even millions) of followers, but on IG I’ve yet to get a response from the dms. I know I can get the women im after on IG because I pull them regularly on the apps, but I want to try and strengthen my IG to get responses. Whats the best way around this?
I’ve been texting this milf for a while now, she’s abroad, our chemistry was good but my biggest problem is I don’t take many photos, I’m lucky that the 3 I have on my profiles get me good success so I’ve become lazy. Anyway this girl was asking for photos and at the time I didn’t have any new ones, and she got fed up and lost interest....completely my fault. Now I’m trying to claw this one back but it looks like it’s a lost cause, I haven’t engaged in over a week now after my last takeaway. If anybody has any good ideas on any Hail Marys it’ll be much appreciated.
