Ok, this is great advice Alex, thank you so much! I plan on buying the PWF. Is there value in finding good mentors and a "tribe" of people in the community. I am finding it hard to find wings here. and dont know if all wings relatively the same or not.

@IndianPE would also love your insight into my original comment as I am a minority as well.

What would you recommend to a newbie who wants to get to the intermediate/advanced level as soon as possible. How many nights a week? How many hours? Focus on career, or game?

Hey guys

My lay count is 51, I am 28 y/o. I get complimented on my good looks often, but I feel ugly. I feel like girls are lying, I have never gamed, never actively approached or done day game, or night game. The few times I have gone out to night clubs I have been too much of a pussy to approach, the last time I went out it went fairly okay. I approached two girls and we have deep immersive conversations for about 30-40 minutes, grinding, making out, pulled one and got the lay. but i dont know how I did it.... I dont have a system. same thing with texting. Just thinking about approaching strangers gives me anxiety lol. I also put alot of weightage on my own looks, have gained weight recently and dont feel as confident. I keep telling myself that when I get the 6 pack I'll go and do hardcore game.

The other thing I struggle with is seeing guys that are objectively not as good looking as me pull good looking girls and it baffles my mind, I get jealous not going to lie, and it baffles me. I feel like I am very looks-oriented and dont have a lot of confidence in my own either regardless of what people say. I have tremendous approach anxiety with strangers, group sets are no-go all the time. I feel like I am quite insecure. What should I do