Posts by Mj Al
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This was the 2nd time she had flaked so I was trying to come up with a better response to get the conversation going. Thought of saying something like "Well shoot me a text and we'll see about that" so I can get her off the app since thats always a good thing but its also pretty soon so not sure if thats a good response?
Replied to her story about her 5 inch heel boots with something along the lines of how fun it must be to walk in the snow with them, this was her response. Advice on a reply? Seems like she's flirting back a bit, we went back and forth for a few messages last week when I opened her with the "I like your style" line and we talked about our weekends but then it died down.
First time I've ever been asked this. What do I even say to this question? Genuinely an odd thing to ask someone kind of gives me gold digger vibes in all honesty
Starting to see women use these question openers more which I'll be honest I'm not used to. Not sure how to answer this, obviously don't want to be too forward but also dont want to be too serious either, trying to hit that flirting sweet spot. Thinking of saying something about how I'm a great cook or something along those lines?
Been getting into Instagram game a bit. I like the "Hey, I like your style š " line because imo most girls have dms flooded with way too forward and creepy messages so its more normal and definitely makes me come off less weird, especially since with insta game like Alex says its better to start off less forward than dating apps. Anyway, usually i get a response like the one attached. Sometimes I'll say something like "Tell me you're from (my area) too", but sometimes i think that comes off too forward asking that so early on, so i feel like there's a better way to move the convo forward. Any ideas on a better response or advice based on experience?
Got banned on Hinge, found a way to make a new account with my laptop and a new number using a vpn, but i dont want to go through all the trouble of doing that and get banned because i used the same photos as my bannes account. If need be I'll wait until i get enough new photos, but does Hinge track banned photos?
Met this girl off Bumble. Things moved pretty quickly she actually gave me her number before I asked. The first screenshot from Bumble shows an objection she had as far as coming over but it seemed like that was handled i included it because what happens later is imo related to this, after that exchange is when she gave me her number (Netflix was my version of "do you like wine" since im not really a big drinker). Anyway, after planning our date we texted for a while had some engaging conversations about things and hobbies we had in common, could tell from the length of her messages she was interested. Cut to today, i reopened her with the Ryan Gosling meme after a few days of not texting (conversation just ended naturally, didnt want to text too much before the date) and she sends me this message. She is an actress so i could be wrong but it seems like a legit excuse. My opinion on this based also on the bumble objection is shes basically saying she's not looking for anything short term so theres no point in us just meeting and potentially just hooking up. Anyway to save this or do I let it go? My goal is dating but at the same time she's very attractive so I wouldn't mind a hookup and maybe more when/if she comes back to Chicago.
Not a huge drinker tbh but I know that a line like that makes a girl more comfortable coming over since it makes it about more than just sex. Anyone have an alternate method or line of dialogue to that line that subtly leads into her coming over and doesn't come off too horny?
