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Hey Alex, hope you’re doing well. I had a pretty weird situation happen about two weeks ago and could really use your insight on what actually happened here. So I met up with this girl Katie late at night. We grabbed a drink and then headed back to my place. Things were going really smoothly and we ended up smashing for about 15 to 20 minutes (brought out a hitachi vibrator, vibe seemed totally fine). But then out of nowhere, she got up to go to the bathroom, came back out, and said she "felt funny" and had to leave. Right after she got home, she texted apologizing for ducking out like that, saying she felt funny and couldn't really explain it, but didn't want to force herself if she wasn't feeling right. She explicitly told me it was nothing I did and brought up that she loved my cat. I kept my cool and replied saying no worries, and that I'd feel terrible if she felt obligated to do anything. I asked if it was an age gap thing, but she said "No not at all." The next afternoon she hit me again saying "I'm sorry again about last night," and I just replied "No worries, Katie" to wrap it up on a good note. Honestly, what was that? What do you think was going through her head mid-hookup for her to panic and bail like that? Also, based on how genuine her texts seemed, how do you read her overall vibe, and how would you handle reaching back out to her (if at all)?

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What has been your own experience and your clients experiences with, doing this in the early stages of hooking up with a girl the first few times. do women consider it needy if you generally care about pleasing her because you don’t come off like a fuck boy 

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Is there anything that people on here do because it’s a Saturday this year?

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Right before the last message she called me and said she wanted to come over(30 minute) drive.She talked about what she liked sexually.She called me at 1 PM and blocked and unmatched me at 4.I tired using Alex’s trick to have a friend text her and reopen to no avail. What happened?

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The close message was sent last night.

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Todays is National Women’s day and I’ve brought that up.They say I didn’t know that.I say we should celebrate.I have found it to be a decent closing line.You can use that for Hispanic heritage month,etc.

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I have a drinks date with this woman.The place is 10 minutes from her place and 45 minutes from mine.(If you must know why,I am working REMoTeLY and watch my parents house while construction is being done).Hosting at my parents is NOT an option.How do I seed the pull back to her place??.I don’t think car sex is possible give the season.

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Alex.Please help dude.Which of these photographers should I go with? https://www.snappr.com/photographers/shannon-j#portfolio-dating https://www.snappr.com/photographers/sehee-k#portfolio-dating https://www.snappr.com/photographers/nick-s-1#portfolio-dating https://www.snappr.com/photographers/stephanie-s#portfolio-dating

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Haven’t met any wings yet in my small city I just moved to.How weird is it to go out solo?There are essentially 3 COLLEGEY bars within a 3 block radius that are good for nightgame.I toggled between the three the first time I went.How would you manage going out solo without giving off the creep alarm?

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Alex.Please help dude.Which of these photographers should I go with? https://www.snappr.com/photographers/shannon-j#portfolio-dating https://www.snappr.com/photographers/sehee-k#portfolio-dating https://www.snappr.com/photographers/nick-s-1#portfolio-dating https://www.snappr.com/photographers/stephanie-s#portfolio-dating

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