Me: Hello troublemaker Girl: Hello, why troublemaker? :D Me: It's your appearance, perfect blend of cute and sexy Girl: Oh, thank you for the compliment Me: So tell me something about yourself - favourite drink? tattoos? prison time? Girl: Coffe is good No tattoos, for sure no tattoos :D Haven't been in jail, passed school with "golden medal" (great marks) Me: I could've used such a desk mate in school :D And how about wine? Girl: Yes i do drink sometimes Me: Great, come join me for a glass. Girl: Troublemaker has work in the morning But we can drink wine somewhere tomorrow Me: What time you get off? Girl: around 16 Me: Lets do this at 20, send me your number - i'll give you a call tomorrow Girl: can't we do it earlier? :) Me: from 18 onwards is ok Girl: Ok, where do you plan to drink this wine? Me: On my romantic patio. Girl: Who or what are you looking for in Tinder? Me: Good chemistry first and foremost, haven't set any arbitary limitations and you? Girl: Still i get the feeling you have only certain things in mind So i guess her concern is i just want to pump and dump since im pushing the meeting to take place in my appartment. What is the correct path forward here? In my mind i have some options but probably should just clarify and then reassure i don't want to pump and dump but just to get to know her. A) Ask her to clarify what thoughts she thinks i have and then address the concern (You want just sex -> Why would you assume that? etc) B) "You got me, i want kinky sex and cuddles" - high risk and probably wont work as the interaction hasn't been sexual enough and my bio isn't sexual. C) "Yes, i'm determined to get to know you better - no other expectations" D) Call her out on not answering what she is looking for.