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We’ve been texting for a lil bit and I ask for the number and she says she doesn't use iMessage. Thing is I don’t use snap like at all and only check it once a day at most so it never ends up working out for me. I’ve tried some things with other chicks but it’s kinda hit or miss. Is there any kind of line or concept I could use to change their mind to send their numbers.
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I think I went for a soft close too early and if I try to hard close I feel I’ll get ghosted because their wasn’t any Vibing or building interest so how should I continue on from here? Go for the close or Segway into vibing and then later bring up the idea of splitting a bottle.
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For a little backstory we are both college students and it’s finals time. She said she was stressed about final and I said “same here. Maybe I can provide a bit of a distraction.” She responds with “you can try!” and I’m not really sure where to go from here. I’ve used this line once before in a similar situation and I think I said something too gamey after and got ghosted so was wondering what a good response to this would be. Thanks.
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I’ve been struggling with knowing when to sexualize and how to build investment. Before when I have tried to sexualize I think I come out to aggressive and out of the blue and usually get ghosted and sometimes when I try building investment the conversation can drag on so I was wondering what are some good tips / lines I could apply. Also in this situation (photos attached) how would I move the conversation to something more sexualized.
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Talking with this girl on and off for a couple days now. First time she came up with the idea of getting drinks and I said sure and asked what her schedule was like. She didn't respond for two days and I hit her with "Don't think too hard" and eventually she said she was sorry because she was busy and I get to talking again for a very short time and bring up the idea of going out for a drink on the weekend and get ghosted again. Is there any way to salvage this and what is some general advice on knowing when to close because I think I may be trying to close prematurely.
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for context I match with this girl and we talk a little and she proposes we get drinks. I say sure and ask what her weekend plans are and she responds with "no plans as of rn (smiley emoji)." I then drop her my number and say text me and well make some. I think I was premature in giving her my number and definitely should have asked for hers, but anyways its been 3 days since with no response. What takeaway could I use here to try and salvage this.
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