I’ve been struggling with knowing when to sexualize and how to build investment. Before when I have tried to sexualize I think I come out to aggressive and out of the blue and usually get ghosted and sometimes when I try building investment the conversation can drag on so I was wondering what are some good tips / lines I could apply. Also in this situation (photos attached) how would I move the conversation to something more sexualized.
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If you're getting ghosted it's possible your profile isn't congruent with overt sexuality. It works for Alex because he mentions his work as a "sexologist" and gives that vibe. Depends on the girl too. Some are down but if they don't feel comfortable w you yet it can trigger ASF.
Here, when she asked how your week is going, you could've put "it's going... just missing a little Kinleigh in my life" or something to that effect.
She gave you the chance again. Some options:
or ----> "a romantic date with a cute (nurse, barista, psych student, etc). Just need to know what days she's free"