How to know when to close and make sure enough investment / attraction has been built up
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3y ago
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Talking with this girl on and off for a couple days now. First time she came up with the idea of getting drinks and I said sure and asked what her schedule was like. She didn't respond for two days and I hit her with "Don't think too hard" and eventually she said she was sorry because she was busy and I get to talking again for a very short time and bring up the idea of going out for a drink on the weekend and get ghosted again. Is there any way to salvage this and what is some general advice on knowing when to close because I think I may be trying to close prematurely.
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Yeah. The interest doesn't seem high. but also, screenshots is the only way I can judge
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Yea lots of guys go for a meet up way too soon. You have to establish a "connection" with them 1st because these days all the girls on dating apps have an insane amount of guys to choose from.
I only go for a close once a girl started investing in the convo (she is responding with slightly longer texts, is responding fairly fast and seems enthusiastic). With some it takes only around 10 texts to get to this point, with others it takes like 30+ but this does work rly well for me. I also soft-close a girl every time before actually asking her out and paint a picture in her mind of how the date will be "I cant wait until we share a glass of wine together, make eachother laugh, hold hands and admire the great view over late nght the city! Just promise me something...." and then when she responds "That you wont be blushing too much;)"