You can always go with the how's my favourite (insert nationality, ethnicity, some inside joke to remember you)

Thanks, will do. BTW, already getting more matches by removing the 1st pic, thanks bros.

Some similar pics under Alex's comment above, thank you.

Thank you for the response, Alex. I watched all the videos and read the guides, but It's a bit tough, I never have pictures of me taken as I do stuff, but I ask friends to take tinder pictures for me. I'm not a natural model, so I can't yet strike the balance of not looking like I'm posing, while still looking my best, I took the activity advice, but my gym pic still looks a bit weird apparently. I have appended a few more photos from each shooting.

The picture comment seemed a bit needy, though there was some compliance sexually before with her "helping" you imagine her and could possibly have passed due to being funny, the seeing her in them on the date escalates after non compliance, perhaps you saw it as a pullback, but in her eyes probably seemed needy as well. Seemed like a whole lot of push and not much pull back on your part, probably it was the overall vibe, and the oof sealed it, like Andrew pointed out I also would not use that word.

Thanks for the detailed feedback Trey, I had a series of the gym pics and sent them around to my past lays/female friends, they claim this one is better than me being normal, but I'll do a similar-style photo outdoors holding a basketball instead of the weight, I'd be interested in your opinion if ball is a better DHV than the gym (doing this as above thirst pic was deleted by bumble, cause it's "indoors and looks too much like underwear"). I'll ditch the sunset one and update in the next few days, possibly with new pictures.

Thank you for the feedback, will post later with some alternative pictures to get your guys opinion.