I see where you’re coming from, just want to add context in case it helps/hurts me more.
I was salsa dancing and chatting with this girl for nearly an hour at said bar - we were having fun. She had expressed interest in coming back with me that night but I lost track of her, hence me hitting her on FB (I know that is weird, but was my only option other than nothing).

Could use an example of reengaging with value if you are able given the context. Thanks for your insights man really appreciate it.

I think you’re right, the best usage of that alien line is probably as a 2nd takeaway (more of a last ditch effort in a week/couple weeks). Should prob stick to a normal phrase as you said, since the alien one is a bit outlandish and I’m already working from behind 😂 appreciate you nonetheless

Thanks for the response man. Considering I found her on Facebook that may have gave off some creep vibes lol so gotta figure out how to rebound from that. Def moved to close too fast but hindsight 20/20. What do you think about this response instead (found in a recent thread on PWF)

“I’m just going to assume you got abducted by aliens”