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just the classic "don't worry, it's not a trick question" or "don't be shy". not a good sign that she is ignoring your close attempt tho
Thanks for the response man. Considering I found her on Facebook that may have gave off some creep vibes lol so gotta figure out how to rebound from that. Def moved to close too fast but hindsight 20/20. What do you think about this response instead (found in a recent thread on PWF)
“I’m just going to assume you got abducted by aliens”
1 Post (+4), 67 Cmts (+66)
thats a great one but not sure it's fitting here. as you said you might have already come off kinda creepy so i would wanna act as normal as possible now. it could still work i dunno. another option is that you just wait a week and then re-engage her with something fun, maybe a funny video of your dog/cat or something and then text with her to get the investment up before trying for a close again
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I’m late so it’s probably too late but I feel like I’m lacking context so I’m gonna bow out on advice.
44 Posts (+21), 550 Cmts (+363)
I agree with Ruben that it's not a good sign.
I also think you phrased the schedule question wrong. Too passive.
I would reengage fresh and offer value, then move towards suggesting a cool venue or event coming up that likewise is a value add when you go for the close - provided, of course, that she reengages with you
2 Posts (-1), 4 Cmts (+1)
I see where you’re coming from, just want to add context in case it helps/hurts me more.
I was salsa dancing and chatting with this girl for nearly an hour at said bar - we were having fun. She had expressed interest in coming back with me that night but I lost track of her, hence me hitting her on FB (I know that is weird, but was my only option other than nothing).
Could use an example of reengaging with value if you are able given the context. Thanks for your insights man really appreciate it.