grow that beard out!! And I prefer pics like 8. Less nice guy.

if we saw some photos, it would really help.

You feeling like you're being judged by others around isn't something unusual. Most guys have that worry. There really isn't any kind of trick. You just have to find a way to push yourself into those situations to be embarassed. For one, you'll realize NOBODY gives a fuck. Two, guys will be jealous that you were able to do it. Third, girls around would find your boldness attractive (there's been times where girls have come to almost amog the girl for attention)... Once you get some success you'll overcome that fear rather quickly.

this is a good video to check out

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k01dhfyDHXw

She was trying to get you to go sexual.... and you totally ignored it. She got bored. Lost hope.
The point of your profile is for sex. She went sexual. You for some reason didnt. The end.

You gave her no reason to meet up with you. You had the typical basic bland interview interaction and jumped in. You didn't DHV. You didn't flirt (or sexualize). You didnt get her to qualify. There was nothing for her to want to meet you or commit in any way. She told you straight up as well.

update?

What happened with this? Update?

Like Alex said, asking for nudes or pictures can instantly kill interactions. And have for me many times back in the day. Just don't do it unless you can bait them into it