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Could someone please recommend of a good photographer in LA area from an experience? Someone that the session with him and posting the pics on the apps seen tremendous change/success. Someone that actually knows what he is doing.

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How is it going guys? I did a photosoot with a photographer and I didn't like it the least to say. So I'll probably will have to redo it with a different guy. But the few photos that I did like I'll upload over here and you will tell me your honest opinion. By the way if anyone knows a good photographer from LA let me know. By the way the shirtless one I took.

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How is it going guys? I am finally having a photosoot with a profesional photographer for the apps next week. Could any of you that have lots of matches please put their profiles up her that I could have some ideas for the pics? And any ideas, suggestions or tips would be much appreciated. I'll post my pics here after the photosoot for your review and opinion.

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How is it going guys? I met this girl last night at the club. We were making out the whole night, tried to pull her to my place, I tried everything, nothing worked. Got here phone number. She told me the next time we gonna be able to hang out is close to the weekend. My question is, what do you guys do in those type of situations if there days or even almost a week till you meet up from the first interaction? Do you engage a text/call conversation from time to time till the meet up moment? And what exactly do you say? Another question is kind of the same principle. I met a girl from a cold approach at the beach yesterday. I could tell she is into me. She told me that sometimes she has free evenings when we talked. I texted her later to let me know when she is free. So I again do I text her from time to time till we meet up or I just wait till she tells me when she is free? With this one I'll might meet up sooner this week then the girl from the club.

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How is it going guys? Just realized it's a bit long but I would appreciate any help. Last Wednesday when I came back from the Chiropractor I did several cold approaches before and after. There was a market in the plaza and some seats outside the first approach the girl was sitting outside and eating, turns out she is married. Second approach in my head I assumed she is a Russian speaking and I was right so I got her number. Let's call her HB7 A. After I got out I noticed another girl before HB7 A but I went outside already (it took me some time I was hesitant) started heading outside the parking lot and then I saw the second girl, let's call her HB7.5 D walking towards her car so I made a turn and parked next to her, turns out she speaks Russian too. Got her Facebook and I looked couple a times around the shoulder too see that the first one doesn't notice me šŸ˜‚ By the way I asked both at the end of the interaction when are they free and they said to text them. So I won't post the texts with HB7 A because it's in Russian but I'll put the translation here: -The same day- Me: It was nice meeting you Dima. HB7 A: Likewise (2 and a half hours later). Me: did you find the makeup you were looking for? HB7 A: Makeup? Me: I thought you were looking for a makeup or lotion (the next day). HB7 A: I was looking for a toothbrush for my daughter (hour and a half later). Me: So we need to introduce her to... sent her a pic of my rabbit (2 hours later). HB7 A: smiling emojies, very cute. Me: So when are you free for an adventure around the world with me? Me: Don't think too hard now (the next day). HB7 A: me and an adventure around the world are 2 parallel worlds. Me: Acai from Brazil so we could say it almost a start of an adventure (I asked during the approach if likes boba tea and/or acai). Me: If you are too shy, I would understand (the next day). Me: Is it always so difficult to make plans with you? (The next day). HB7 A: I am overall very difficult. So my first question is how do I go from here? HB7.5 D still responds but it takes her a long time as well. Recently asked her when is she free? She asked what for and that she kind of partied too much this weekend. My response: To hang out with a cute Jewish boy. As I am writing this post, HB7.5 D texted that we can go for coffee on one of the nights. Me: So when are you free? So just waiting for her to respond for the logistics. My second question: I went out clubbing by myself last night. On my second approach I started dancing with this super cute girl which I ended up kissing so I told her to hang out with me after but she said that she has to take her friend back home. She asked for my number and said she would drive back to my place after she will drop off her friend. I headed over to my house, I texted and called her but no response. She texted me in the morning saying she was to drunk so she knocked out. So she agreed to come to my place after work. I texted her close to the time that we agreed If she is on her way? She said she is to tired and she is going to take a nap. Told her that she can come after. I texted her like 3 hours later that I am getting hungry and if she wants to grab something to eat. She left me on read. What should be my next step with this one? because she already stood me up twice.

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Hey guys! I am going back to the dating apps after years. Could you please give me an honest opinion about them?

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How is it going guys? Need some advice. I went on Saturday with a friend to the beach. Did several cold approaches. Got 2 numbers. 1 curvy, sexy Jewish girl with a bikini walking her dog, It was so tiny that I could see the pubic hair sticking out from the sides. I think she is a hippie because she had some armpit hair. 2nd one is a traveling nurse. I texted both of them the same day but no response and then I texted today: "don't think too hard" to both and got responses. I am not really good at sexualizing conversations especially over texts. I'll put here the screen shots and you tell me what you think or how should I reply back. (The thread with the meme it's the nurse and the other one is the Jewish girl).

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Hey, what's up guys? So I went to a club last night with a couple buddies of mine. Did several approaches. Danced with some girl but then she went to her friend so I wasn't about to chase, plus she wasn't that good looking. Towards the end already, I noticed this sexy little girl admiring my moves so I grabbed and led her behind the DJ (there was a little elevated stage where the DJ was and there was space behind him), I Danced with her and I used one of the guy's from the other group on Facebook line: "You keep moving your hips like that on the dance floor and you are going to get me in trouble tonight, I told myself I'd be a good boy". I could see she is into me so I kissed her. At some point I grabbed the booty. After some time she just left me without saying nothing I think. I think they already turned on the lights. I saw her sitting on the couch so I asked her if she is down to hang out? I was asking personal questions to make some comfort. I don't remember exactly how but we got to the point where her mom is a medium and she reads in Taro cards and she can tell stuff and approve of a certain person. So I said: what's her phone number? I an going to bribe her/send her money that she will approve of me (jokingly). She said: that i would go and have sex with you? (Now when i think about it Idk if it was a shit test) I said: pretty much yeah She said that she is waiting for her friends and they are planning on doing something so we can meet up after. I took down her phone number and kissed her again. There was a point where she gave me the cheek but the second time she kissed back. I texted her after I went out: when is she going to be done with her friends? She never replied back. How do I follow up? Any constructive criticism is welcome.

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Hey whats up guys! I had this idea for quite a while to open a whatsapp group for immediate help for people in the community because sometimes it takes a long time for someone to comment or sometimes nobody comments at all to your post and you need some advice right away otherwise you mess up or it's irrelevant already. So we could share some great ideas, experiences, we can inspire each other, hold each other accountable, push each other, motivate, share some vital info, help to each other as you encountered some difficulties in a mid of a set or a date etc. I am pretty sure that for each of us there are going to be at least couple of guys in your time zone to help you on the spot and if you don't want to be bothered at a specific time or you live in a completely different time zone, you can always put the group on mute. If you are interested pm me your phone number. Good luck to all.

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I met this girl at a club on Sunday near by my house, it was almost empty. There was a group of 4 girls, maybe 2 couples and a group of 2 girls and 1 guy (my girl was part of that group) and maybe several people at the bar. At some point the girl came up to me and grabbed me by my hand to dance. Before that i approached to another girl but she told me her boyfriend is right there. So we danced and talked a bit and i took down her phone number and told her we should go for some drinks sometimes and she said: yeah just call me. So i texted her on Monday and i am going to attach the screen shots. I didn't really expect that response from her but i feel that it might be a shit test. Because she gave me her phone number and was down for meet up and if she will meet up with me i am going to game her as usual and even was thinking to approach some other girls while i am on a "date" with her and if she say something I'll tell her that we are just friends and idk what she is talking about šŸ˜‰ Or something like that. She hasn't responded to my last text. How do you guys think i should proceed from here?

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