The first guy that commented :))

Ask your wife?
If she's cool with it, go for it,
If not, don't.
If it's a deal breaker, divorce :))))

She's so low investement I would try to find something about here profile that would get her to give 1 real respons or go with "Since your my type I'll let it slide"
You could also hail mary and go for "Don't be sorry, I'm sure you can make it up me on our date"

2022-10-02: the end feels too scipted
2022-11-04: She is not invested at all in the convo and you close to soon + "yo" into "wyd" is pretty bad for a reengage

In the 2 succeses you find a fun subject "drinking champ" and "kissing virginity" that keep the convos fun and keeps the girl invested

Now, Im no pro, but in the 2 fails you had to resort to "killer workout" line which indicates you are just autopiloting (or running a script) and the others you get the convo to flow naturally

But ofc that's just my 2 cents ^^