Comments by Steven Banas
Joined 5y ago5 Posts (+0), 8 Cmts (+2)
I see your point. Get back to the basics and close the date.
The problem is when I ask about her schedule, she doesn't give me direct answers that I can work with. For example, I asked her what her schedule is like this week and she said "next week just busy Tuesday." I replied with, "How does Monday sound to hanf out?" and she says "Can check." before never getting back to me about Monday.
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Just keep the ball rolling my guy, and don't be boring. A few things you can say from here are:
-"Are you originally from here?"
-"How was your Christmas?"
Or if you want to sexualize her, you can go with "Hmm🤔 So you are the submissive type"
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1 & 3 personally are a no go.
Your facial expression on 1 is just off-putting and looks too posed.
3 has way too much headroom and it's taken from a upward angle which makes you look short.
Out of all these, I think 4 is Tinder ready with a good blend of other photos.
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It's not a bad opener, but not a great one either. Think about what other guys are sending her and how you can stand out from the rest. I think this is a good time to use the "I like your selfie collection" opener.
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I switched 5 to this a few days ago. Hope this current setup is more appealing.
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I placed 3 as 2. How would you go about humor in my bio do you think?
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I made some changes thanks to your advice. Hope this looks better?



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I agree with you. Do you think she is trying to keep things more platonic or is she demonstrating investment?